‘Age Cannot Hold Back Courage; You Can Skydive At 80 As I Did’

Dr Shraddha Chauhan, who celebrated her 80th birthday by diving from 10,000 feet, says it was the moment that mattered, not creating any record. Her story:

At 80, most people expect you to sit back and relax — perhaps enjoy a quiet cup of tea, watch your grandchildren play, or look through old photo albums. But me? I’ve always dreamed a little differently. Deep inside me lived a quiet dream — the dream to fly. Not in a plane, but like a bird, with the sky above and the wind against my face.

For years, it remained just that — a dream. I suffer from vertigo, cervical spondylitis, and a prolapsed disc in my spine. Everyone, including myself at times, believed that these were reasons enough to stay grounded.

But not my son!

My son, Brigadier (Retd.) Saurabh Singh Shekhawat, is a braveheart in every sense. A soldier, a mountaineer, a horseman, and now, a skydiving instructor! He has jumped from helicopters in high-altitude war zones and scaled the highest peaks. And on my 80th birthday, he gave me a gift I will never forget — he made my dream come true.

“Ma, how would you like to celebrate this birthday in the sky?” he asked me with a twinkle in his eye. I was stunned. Was he serious? Could I really do it? I laughed nervously and my immediate response was, “Bete, main toh chal bhi dhang se nahi sakti (I can barely walk)!” Yet, something inside me stirred. Maybe this was the moment. If not now, when?

Getting ready for the skies

On the morning of the jump, at the Skyhigh Drop Zone in Narnaul, my heart beat faster than rockstar’s drum. Dressed in a jumpsuit and strapped to my son in a tandem harness, I boarded the aircraft. The sky outside was vast and welcoming, and inside me, a strange calm began to rise. Perhaps it was the faith I had in my son. Perhaps it was the quiet belief that age is just a number.

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When the plane reached 10,000 feet, the door opened. I could feel the rush of wind. My son whispered, “Ma, are you ready?” And before I could overthink it, we leapt.

What a moment it was!

The earth below looked like a patchwork quilt. The wind roared in my ears. My heart raced, but so did my spirit. For those few seconds, I wasn’t 80. I was ageless. Free.

As the parachute opened, the descent slowed, and I took in the view — the sky, the silence, the wonder of it all. When we landed, people clapped. Someone asked, “Aunty, dar nahi laga (Weren’t you scared)?” I smiled and replied: Jab ho shubh sankalp, atma vishwas, aur Ishwariya saath — toh phir dar kaisa(When you have set an objective, hold self-belief in heart, and there is divine support — what is there to fear)?”

I’m told I am now the oldest Indian woman to do a tandem skydive, and the oldest to do so within India. But records were not my goal. I just wanted to chase my dream — and I did. So here I am — a mother, a dreamer, and now, a skydiver.

At 80, I flew — not just with my body, but with my soul. Because courage has no age. And love? It soars even higher.

As told to Deepti Sharma

‘If Outdoor Adventure Calls You, Don’t Let Society Hold You Back’

Vaijayanthi Bhat, an adventure enthusiast, shares her journey of embracing adventure travel and the challenges women face in outdoor spaces

I have always loved being outdoors and connecting with nature. Unfortunately, in our country, easy access to outdoor spaces can be limited. My idea of a vacation revolves around spending time in nature, but with a bit of excitement—something more action-packed than just hiking. While hiking is great, I prefer activities with a faster pace. This love for adventure has naturally drawn me toward adventure travel whenever I get the chance.

Another major reason is my daughter. I don’t want her growing up disconnected from the outdoors. I want her to experience the beauty of nature and see me embracing adventure as a woman. While things are changing, many girls in our country are still taught to play it safe, avoid risks, and not be adventurous. This mindset deprives them of essential life skills. I want my daughter to grow up confident, willing to take calculated risks, and connected to the world around her. That’s why I embrace adventure travel—not just for myself, but also to create a different world for her where these experiences are a natural part of life.

As a single woman, one of the biggest challenges with outdoor activities is needing company. Even though I’d love to go alone, it’s just not safe. This remains a significant and ongoing hurdle for women like me who want to explore the outdoors independently.

When it comes to facilities, I acknowledge that off-the-beaten-path adventures often come with basic amenities, and that’s okay. However, there has been significant improvement in recent years. For instance, on a hiking trip in Goa, the organizers provided mobile tents for changing clothes, which was both thoughtful and practical. Such progress is encouraging.

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Safety and security, however, remain concerns. It’s a chicken-and-egg situation—the more women participate in outdoor activities, the more normalized and safer these spaces will become. For that to happen, we must take the initiative and put ourselves out there. It’s a gradual process, but change is happening, and I’m optimistic about the future.

Bhat says adventure experiences can be transformative

When planning outdoor activities, I take basic but crucial precautions. I always seek out trustworthy groups or guides who come recommended by women or friends. Having that network of trust makes a big difference. Unfortunately, venturing out completely alone isn’t something I’d feel safe doing, so careful planning ensures a safer, more enjoyable experience.

One thing that truly stands out now is the incredible support from people within the outdoor adventure community. Whether it’s surfers, mountain bikers, or kayakers, these communities are welcoming and encouraging to women. The individuals involved are often extremely supportive, helpful, and enthusiastic about seeing more women participate. This sense of belonging makes the journey into outdoor adventure much easier and more enjoyable.

If outdoor adventure calls to you, don’t let societal pressures or others’ expectations hold you back. My advice is simple: give it a try. It’s an empowering and liberating experience. The lessons learned in nature are unmatched—taking calculated risks, understanding your limits, and pushing beyond your comfort zone all build a strong foundation of confidence. These experiences are transformative, whether you’re a child or an adult woman. If this resonates with you, take the leap and discover a whole new version of yourself.

When it comes to safety, choose guides and operators who prioritize sustainable tourism and are mindful of their environmental footprint. Such organizations are often more progressive, supportive of women, and safer. Travel with guides or companies recommended by people you trust, as familiarity adds an extra layer of safety.

Plan your journey wisely. Avoid driving at night or through isolated areas. Basic precautions and common sense go a long way in ensuring a safe and enjoyable experience. Stepping into the world of outdoor adventure can be life-changing. It builds resilience, confidence, and a sense of self that’s hard to replicate elsewhere. Take the first step, plan thoughtfully, and embrace the journey—it’s worth it.

As told to Mamta Sharma